Truth is you are born to die in this life. This is not pessimistic at all this is the truth , the reality we dont want to face . Every human has a soul , a brain, a heart . In other words we are functioning organisms that need certain things to keep functioning . This function is called life and you can customise it every day cause it is your life . It has so many aspects and these are making  it very complicated and this complicity is what makes it special ,bitter,sweet , beautiful, bearable or not. So this is a gift you are given or a curse it depends on how you see it . How you live it and with who or alone everything is a matter of attitude and timing at  this life.